a pink princess dress. on my kid. it makes her happy so yeah, a pink princess dress on my kid. :) |
A week after Lovie turned 2, she started flipping out during drop off at daycare in the morning. Just like that. Every morning for 8 straight school days, she flipped out when I dropped her off: arching back, screaming, crying with tears flooding her face, body flopped to the floor when not arched back.
When I would pick her up from school, she was fine. She was Lovie.
pink jeggings. on my kid. they're adorable and they were gifted so yeah. pink jeggings on my kid! :D |
But the next morning, it was back to the screaming and crying and unhappy child.
The pediatrician had warned us that the Terrible Two's brought out a lot of independence but a lot of neediness, too... but this was crazy to me. I mean, all of a sudden, just like that things were going to be different?! And there was nothing I could but keep on trucking?
I started to dread school mornings. I didn't want to be the one to wake her. I contemplated changing hours at work to see if it was that she wasn't getting enough rest because I couldn't imagine putting her to bed any earlier (than 7- the bedtime she's had forever) and she wasn't acting out in this manner on the weekends when she could wake up on her own.
bathtime from the other night |
Then last week happened. Monday we were both off for MLK day and everything was fine- though by the end of the day she had a fever. She stayed home Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday because she was still feverish (except for Thursday). Friday when I dropped her off, I was terrified. But she was OK. She whined a minute and latched onto my leg but was OK: no freakout.
And all this week? FINE! This morning, in fact, she ran into her room and leaped into her teacher's arms.
from last night: she had to have her hand constantly on me at all times as we sat watching Nick Jr. |
Dudes, it's so good to have my sweet girl back. I mean, of course she has her moments (she threw her hugest tantrums last Thursday and Friday both- I'm talking screaming and crying for an hour practically {or so it seemed}- so it's not like I'm trying to say she's perfect), but for the most part this kid is unbelievably awesome, and *I* get to be her Mama.
I'm so blessed. Even during those rough days (with more to come, I'm sure), I'm so immensely blessed.
I'm glad things are back to normal. I can't imagine that girl ever being difficult. ;-) She's so cute. Jeggings are my favorite.
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