My husband is by far the most patient human being I’ve ever
encountered. In the 12 years I’ve known him, I’ve never once heard him raise
his voice; he’s always, under every circumstance, very calm and collected. It’s
like he just knows things will work out.
I thank the universe for Taye and his patience often, but
not often enough. And the truth is, I’d be one sad puppy without him. He loves
me for me. All of me. And he’s sooo patient with me and my antics… my moods, my
ideas, my insanity, my dorkiness. But more than that, his patience has turned
him into an absolute amazing Daddy.
I remember lying in the hospital completely blissed over the
fact that all my dreams had finally come true while I watched Taye, with a
hand-made baby blanket wrapped around his shoulders, lean over and look in at
our Lovie. His face was so peaceful, so blissful, so complete. He smiled from
ear to ear. His hands held onto the side of the clear bassinet Lovie laid in
all swaddled like a burrito, and his face leaned over so that he could study
hers. He spent a lot of time that first day, especially, studying her. I
thought he might be afraid to pick her up so I told him several times to do so.
But now I know he was just absorbing it all in, living in that moment and
soaking it all up.
Sure there are times when Lovie might have a tantrum that
grates on your last nerve, but I never have any doubt that Taye will be right
there to try to reason it all out with a calm, patient approach. Every single
time. And every single time I’m always left sitting there in awe at his
patience, and am reminded that this, too, shall pass.
Love this!
ReplyDeleteoh thank you so much- for stopping by and commenting. :)
DeleteAdorable! You have a great man there. Reminds me of mine. I know that if we end up married and have kids one day that he'll be a great dad like this, too. Congrats on your good fortune! ;-)
ReplyDeletethanks, Kerry; we've been together for 12 years, married only 5- so hopefully it'll happen for you, too.
DeleteIn our family, Tim is the endlessly patient one too. It's quite amazing to see this side of him - the father side makes me love him more (most of the time).
ReplyDeleteoh i hear that. other than watching Lovie in action (or sleeping- who can deny watching a sleeping child?), i love nothing more than watching her and her daddy. almost too much for my heart to handle. ;)
DeleteThat was so sweet! I love the pictures as well. They really got your message across. He just looks so enamored of her. Went right to my heart!
ReplyDeleteaww thank you! i'd hoped to convey all of that
Deletebeautiful words and pictures!
ReplyDeleteWell throw a bow on this and call it a Father's Day gift Christina! That photo of him with Lovie in the hospital, too much cuteness.
ReplyDeleteLovely words!
ReplyDeleteMy husband is far less patient than me - it's a wonderful gift in a Father, I have to say.
Two impatient people make for very impatient kids - there is a LOT of "counting to ten" in our house!
The words and the pictures were both awesome. The look on his face in each picture tells it all :)
ReplyDeleteGreat job!
Yes! our husbands are the same!
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