tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post381924120889873530..comments2023-06-21T02:53:31.158-05:00Comments on finally Mom: Stuffchristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02983259980848913151noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-11779763851064668662011-10-02T11:59:17.382-05:002011-10-02T11:59:17.382-05:00GAH 6 DAYSGAH 6 DAYSSarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03626726835869299905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-60875500515710197132011-10-02T11:57:47.963-05:002011-10-02T11:57:47.963-05:00Every time I hear Bryan Adams I think of you :) 7 ...Every time I hear Bryan Adams I think of you :) 7 DAYS NOW!<br /><br />We need to come up with a what-if plan too... with everything that we've just been through, it makes so much sense. Good for you for making the tough decision!Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03626726835869299905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-15492433799814133242011-10-01T16:47:35.858-05:002011-10-01T16:47:35.858-05:00Hate heavy stuff, like when Mark and I decided we ...Hate heavy stuff, like when Mark and I decided we should purchase a Preneed funeral plan for him. Such fun!Jennifer Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06543609958581052245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-63576113551147554142011-09-30T17:27:49.289-05:002011-09-30T17:27:49.289-05:00Amy you need to set up your blogger so that it'...Amy you need to set up your blogger so that it's not from no-reply; i'll try to contact you to let you know about the park- it's near where you live i'm pretty sure!christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02983259980848913151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-24131072585096469042011-09-30T17:26:57.660-05:002011-09-30T17:26:57.660-05:00OMG LOG you're right; it's in 8 days ... B...OMG LOG you're right; it's in 8 days ... BRYAN ADAMS IS IN 8 DAYS. i changed it. :)christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02983259980848913151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-83975318474089377702011-09-30T16:56:38.023-05:002011-09-30T16:56:38.023-05:00I love your Lovie.
I love it that you're goi...I love your Lovie. <br /><br />I love it that you're going to see Bryan Adams!<br /><br />Good for you for approaching this subject and resolving to do something. It's hard to sit across from a lawyer and talk about what happens if you die...or if you don't die but are incapacitated. I really, really promise that having this big thing crossed off your list will give you an incredible measure of relief and security. <br /><br />P.S. One commenter mentioned just having a home-prepared document notarized. I mean no disrespect for her but so many people have been convinced that this is enough. Speaking from experience: this will hold no water in court. I beg you to have everything, your advance-directives included, prepared by a family lawyer. <br /><br />You can contact me privately or on FB if you want more information. I feel so strongly about this but can't post about it in my own blog as several family members would be crushed to know that they weren't chosen. Oh, also, we have back-ups - meaning, three people in line to care for her and also three different people to control the money. If Tim and I eat it, Ada comes with millions to care for her. I doubt our chosen people would be greedy - maybe not make the best financial choices always - but from what I've seen, death can really fuck up the living.Peeperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01707172260314720194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-59859498833101485112011-09-30T16:17:49.766-05:002011-09-30T16:17:49.766-05:00Yay Lovie! And I'm so glad you've thought ...Yay Lovie! And I'm so glad you've thought of the unthinkable and settled on your cousin to look after her.<br /><br />Happy weekend!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00064428624559728495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-1753988515246733972011-09-30T15:21:17.545-05:002011-09-30T15:21:17.545-05:00Dude. Are you seeing him on Maggie's birthday...Dude. Are you seeing him on Maggie's birthday?Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11951450125522793011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-37351895797945906102011-09-30T15:06:41.270-05:002011-09-30T15:06:41.270-05:00I love her!!! Where is that firetruck park in your...I love her!!! Where is that firetruck park in your banner!?!?Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07990644793753545966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2230384076641171546.post-85412184465893953182011-09-30T14:33:27.791-05:002011-09-30T14:33:27.791-05:00god do i love that little face!if the cousin bails...god do i love that little face!if the cousin bails...my offer still stands :)sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10407880075964040578noreply@blogger.com